Welcome to
Fill Your Cup First
If you’re tired of overthinking, people-pleasing, or repeating the same relationship cycles, you’re in the right place. Fill Your Cup First offers audio mini-courses, guided reflection sheets, and practical emotional wellness tools to help you slow down, reconnect with yourself, and make small shifts that add up to real change.
Choose Your Path
Use Fill Your Cup First in whatever way fits your life right now:
As an addition to therapy
Build momentum between sessions with guided reflections, coping tools, and repeatable practices you can actually stick with.
As a self-help option
Go at your own pace with structured resources that help you understand your patterns—and start changing them—without feeling overwhelmed.
If therapy feels unappealing or unobtainable
No appointments. No pressure. No explaining yourself. Just supportive, self-paced tools that meet you where you are.
Maybe you’re:
Doing “all the right things” but still feel stuck, drained, or anxious
Keeping the peace at your expense—and resenting it
Caught in cycles of toxic relationships, self-doubt, or emotional burnout
Trying to heal from a dysfunctional upbringing while building a healthier life now
Wanting support that feels accessible, private, and actually doable
You don’t need to have it all figured out to start. You just need a next step.
What Makes This Different
This isn’t about quick fixes or “positive vibes only.” It’s about small, consistent shifts that help you feel more grounded, more clear, and more in control of how you show up in your life and relationships. Everything is designed to be practical, encouraging, and grounded in evidence-based approaches—so you can move from insight to action.


